Although there was a lot going on in my house last week, I was definitely feeling the pressure of looming deadlines and unexpected expenses. It truly seemed that although I knew I was distracted and frazzled, the only logical solution was to work through it. To challenge it and own it. You know, take the bull by the horns and all that.

Decision made, I grabbed my reusable water bottle and settled down to tap away at my favorite writing program. Now, I have to admit, almost nothing gets me as excited as a new program or an update to a program I already have and like. You just know I'm going to be clicking over to that as fast as my TouchPad will let me and today, I saw that little "upgrade available" notice. Did I mention I was using my favorite writing program?

That part of the story is a bit long and boring. We'll just cut to the chase and say I had to import my files to make them compatible with the new ones.

Allowing myself to get distracted by all the craziness around me, I frustratedly clicked "update file". I growled at the "are you sure you want to overwrite this file?" question and clicked "yes". Then I watched as my word count went from almost 14,000 to 0.

My stomach realized what that meant before my brain did because it dropped to my feet before my swirling thoughts grasped the implications of what had just happened.

The message here is three-fold:

1. Don't make important decisions while distracted.

2. Taking time to relax and refresh will help you accomplish more in the long run.

3. Always back up your files!

The tears and nausea passed as I remembered that I had started the story on pen and paper. That meant I at least had half of my work. Somewhere. Glaring at my reflection in the monitor, I let my eyes drop and noticed a little green padlock in my taskbar. Carbonite! Maybe I hadn't lost my work after all!

Thankfully, I was able to recover my old files and restore the part of my soul I had given to my novel-in-progress. This time.

Please take my experience to heart. Implement a backup plan as quickly as possible if you don't already have one. If you already have a system in place, test it periodically.

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
This morning, I woke up at five. However, my eyes were not cooperating. They had that sleep coating that won't let you open your peepers more than a tiny slit, just enough to squint at the clock before the cement blocks tighten their rope's hold the lids again.

It felt like someone had pranked me as I slept but instead of using a marker to draw or write embarrassing things, they used that fake-lash glue to stick my lids together!

Okay, so I could complain or get upset with my daily struggle to rise before the rooster, but instead I focused on my other, less-noticed (and decidedly non-glued) senses. I felt the smooth sheets, the fog encased breaze wafting through the window and getting shoved at me by the fan. I heard the birds doing their pre-daylight twittering and preening. I was able to isolate a few individual smells that comprise the distinct "ranch smell" only found here, in the place where I grew up.

Then there was a huge crash as the rooster knocked something over in my home office. Wait. We don't have a rooster! It was the kittehs partaking of their daily tag-and-destroy-the-house-because-they-are-traveling-at-warp-speed game. My eyes HAD to open this time!


Aliens must have kidnapped the huge, dayglo digit displaying clock/radio though because it was swearing up and down that the time was now seven. Seven! How did two hours pass during the five minutes it took me to "center" myself and try to become one with the harmony of the universe?


Apparently, I found harmony with my mattress instead and, once again, the rooster cats beat me to waking up.

*deep sigh*


Maybe I'll win tomorrow ...

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
You know, it's funny. They always tell a woman to "just get out" but lemme tell you from personal experience, if you don't stick around and document, document, document, you will continue to be violated looooong after you've left.

Here are three easy ways to protect yourself:

1. Don't get into a relationship with someone you aren't totally sure about or if you have even a little twinge of unease.
2. If you do wind up in a bad situation, seek out professional assistance, document everything you can and - once you've got your support system in place - get the heck out of there.

3. Remember, you can't do anything about the other person but you sure as heck can own yourself and your life.

As Em says, "don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful, they can all get f'd just stay true to you". Yeah, it's hard but trust me, the rewards are well worth it!
To all the nice guys who've been part of my life and who have encouraged me to go out, stand up and be me: thanks.

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
I received the following message in an email from a friend today. While I may not believe that it will bring me good luck as it claims to, I really believe in the message.

To realize the value of a sister/brother
Ask someone who doesn't have one.

To realize the value of ten years:
Ask a newly divorced couple.

To realize the value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize the value of one year:
Ask a student who has failed a final exam.

To realize the value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize the value of one month:
Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of one minute:
Ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize the value of one-second:
Ask a person who has survived an accident.

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend or family member:
LOSE ONE.

Remember to hold on tight to the ones you love!

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
Wow. It's been a very long time since I last posted here and a lot has happened since then.

"The difference between fiction and reality? Fiction has to make sense." -Tom Clancy

My son is now 7, I'm 31, my uncle has been gone for almost 4 years, my RV dreams are still on hold, I almost became a Jew, I left Texas for New York and then came back again.

So much to catch up on, so much to unpack!

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
I received the following message in an email from a friend today. While I may not believe that it will bring me good luck as it claims to, I really believe in the message.

To realize the value of a sister/brother Ask someone who doesn't have one.

To realize the value of ten years: Ask a newly divorced couple.

To realize the value of four years: Ask a graduate.

To realize the value of one year: Ask a student who has failed a final exam.

To realize the value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize the value of one month: Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of one minute: Ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize the value of one-second: Ask a person who has survived an accident.

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend or family member: LOSE ONE.
Remember to hold on tight to the ones you love!

Wishing you much peace, happiness, and success,
After our original 4th of July plans fell through, CJ and I did what I grew up doing in South Texas: drive around looking for the fireworks (especially if you didn’t have your own or ran out too soon ;). What we saw here on this side of Long Island may not have been as snazzy as those in NYC but we had fun anyway! =)

Want to see a short video? Press play .. if you dare. Bwah ha ha ha!



We were trying to stay up later but alas, our sleep heavy eyelids betray us. Goodnight everyone!

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,