Now that I'm a single mom, I often find myself at a loss as to how to "correctly" teach my son about his heritage.
No, I'm not just referring to what my son calls his "blackness". There are at least 5 different backgrounds co-mingling in his little body! (Excluding ancestors we cannot account for.)
In the end, I teach him in a purely historical context, emphasizing how things have changed, how everyone is different in some ways and especially how our world is now a melting pot of cultures, religions and "races". Just like we are.
While searching for a Valentine's Day prayer for my blog, I found a website that contained a beautiful blessing for Black History Month as well.
"God of peace, thank you for a society that honors the achievements and sacrifices of all people. This February, bless all who, in the spirit of Black History Month, seek to bring Your world together, rather than to tear it apart. Bless all Your beloved children, Loving Father, and teach us to live together in peace, now and always. Amen."
This pretty much sums up how I feel about the positive changes we've made in embracing diversity. Truly, this should be something we keep in mind throughout the entire year. Not just for one month.
Respect the Creator, respect all His creations. Regardless of what race, color, creed or different-ability.
Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
[Prayer slightly modified from the one found at Suite101's Protestantism Prayers for February; however, I am not Protestant, nor do I claim any specific path as my own at this time.]
Ha! Well I didn't know quite what to expect when I clicked on this link, but this wasn't bad at all. :-)
ReplyDeleteMy sister is married to a full-blooded Italian, and they have two children. They have been taught both their heritages and don't give their "identity" much thought.
Our family has a long history of many bloodlines, but the predominant ones are French, Indian, and African.
LOL You had a pre-conceived notion and you hoped I wouldn't go there? ;)
ReplyDeleteMy family is French, Spanish, English and who knows what else. We are on the US/Mexico border and so we might be part Mexican too.
Add that to the other half of his DNA and my son is a great representation of what the world is becoming: a melting pot. =)