Lifestyle Choices

If you've been alive long enough, you've definitely experienced the "I've got more/better than you do" attitude from someone.

Sometimes it's funny because we don't really care about whatever they are focusing on. If they happen to stumble upon a sore point though, their jabs can be pretty hurtful.

The next time someone insults you, puts you down or tries to act like they are better than you are for having more stuff, ask yourself these questions:

1. Does this person's opinion really matter to me?
   Is this someone you respect? Is this person reliable and a good influence? Is this someone you would like to be around or share values with?
    
2. Do I really care about whatever they are talking about?
   Is this convo about something that matters to you? Does this have something to do with your life?
    
3. Is this in line with my values and dreams?
   What is your version of success? What is your version of Golden Rule living? Would this be something you would be proud of and feel comfortable with?

Most of the time, people put you down to try to make themselves feel better about themselves.

Someone who is confident in who they are and how they are living their life has ZERO reason to try to bash you.

Have fun, stay safe and God bless,