"Don't be dismayed by good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends." ~ Richard Bach

This has definitely held true for me in many instances. The most recent "well, hello agains" were from friends I'd last been in contact with about 15 years ago!


"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." ~ John F. Kennedy

 

Over the past few months, I've been insulted by well-meaning individuals who tell me they "work" and "don't have time" to be online "playing" or "chatting". (At least, I'd like to think they are well-meaning.)

Ironically, 9 times out of 10, they are the ones who initiated a conversation with me.

Anyway, what better place could there be to address their attempts to knock me than a blog about frugal resources and additional, free to start, legitimate work-at-home opportunities?

First of all, I'd like to point out that I am a freelancer that literally lives out in the boonies. If it weren't for the internet, I wouldn't be able to get as much work (if any). Being online IS part of my job.

What makes my work situation inferior to someone who punches in 9-5 or works their butt off doing construction? Nothing. As long as I pay my bills and provide for my family, aren't I just like everyone else?

What makes my work situation harder? My advertising, marketing, customer service, file clerk, cleaning crew, boss, employees and receptionist are all one person. Me. I am everyone and everything.

Let me tell you, working out of a home office is both a blessing and a curse. I'll leave the positive list to your imagination and talk about the downside.

  • People assume you are available and willing to work 24/7/365 and get mad if you try to set time boundaries. "You are right there, your work is right there. So what's the big deal? It'll just take 5-10 minutes then you can get back to your kid."
  • Others interrupt your day just to chat because they think you aren't doing anything. Here they are at their job, interacting on Facebook/Twitter/MySpace/etc., while you are putting together tech training classes, restructuring networks, remotely troubleshooting systems and working on website code.
  • The temptation to "just finish this last piece" because it should only take 5 minutes often leads to being a workaholic and burn-out. In your own home. It can get to where you don't even want to be in your own house!
  • You frequently have to schedule meetings or other events around others' schedules. For me, it means unpredictable scheduling and some looong days. Someone may be available before 7am Eastern, someone else after 10pm Pacific. I'm Central. You do the math.

Your work can become your life under "normal" conditions. Imagine how that is when your life and your work share the same space. Imagine being the company. Just you. I know my self-employeds out there hear me.

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
"We learn our virtues from our friends who love us; our faults from the enemy who hates us. We cannot easily discover our real character from a friend. He is a mirror, on which the warmth of our breath impedes the clearness of the reflection." ~ Jean Paul Richter

 

"Every man should keep a fair-sized cemetery in which to bury the faults of his friends." ~ Henry Ward Beecher

Let's pray our friends have one for our faults too!
Do you have a horse that kicks? If you have tried every method you've found but are disappointed by the "results", you may want to have a quick peek at this free horse training video from Pat Parelli.

If you've got the perfect horse, congrats! I'd still recommend watching the video though. Mr. Parelli's horse-friendly techniques are definitely something you'll want to incorporate into your normal training routine.

Wishing you much peace, happiness and success,
"Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die; so, let us all be thankful." ~ Buddha